I don't know what is 'normal'. I know some children start Reception without having learned not to bite/pinch/kick etc, but my DD is in Year 2 and still gets physically hurt, pretty much daily, by a couple of nasty classmates.
She is changing school in September, and she can't wait. I am writing a letter to her current school today to give notice, and am wondering if I'm doing the right thing in telling them about the physical hurt that the other children inflict on her. It has really knocked her confidence.
At least three times a week, usually daily, she comes home telling me she's been kicked, hit, or pinched. The latest thing is that twice in the last 10 days, she's had her head forced to the ground, then a kid sits on her head and farts on it on purpose. They're 7. I get that farting is hilarious when you're 7 but I think pushing a kid's head down to let one rip on it is really disgusting.
Does this happen at your kids' schools? Is this normal? I don't expect kids to be perfectly disciplined and studious little charmers in pressed suits, but is this normal? Her school is rubbish at discipline: the punishment for the kid who hit her last week was that they would only be allowed one biscuit at break tomorrow.
If there is one silver lining, it's that she's learned that some people are arseholes; she's learned not to take it personally; and she's learned to stand her ground and shout at them so loudly when they hurt her that they run off crying. She is far tougher than I was, and has shaken off the victim mentality she slipped into a year ago. Still, I hate sending her to school every day knowing someone's going to physically hurt her. I'm feeling really angry.
Am I being a hankie-clutching over-flouncy mother to tell the school? I don't know what is normal. I have no idea.
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Does your child get physically hurt at school? How often?
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MimsyBorogoves · 18/03/2014 14:54
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