Hiya
I'm not sure what I ought to do about this situation or how unreasonable anyone is being so though I would ask here (famous last words!)
Ds is in Y6. He is a good boy generally, I mean the sort of boy who tries to appease, is fairly earnest, tries his best and is nearly always polite at school (and even at home tbh).
However he is very disorganised and he tends to fall quite a lot (dyslexia, dyspraxia - recently assessed)
All the boys play out in the playground which is all hard surface, except some surrounding muddy grassy bits they don't go on in the winter. There is surface water, muddy water everywhere.
This isn't the first time but today he got a bit muddy (I say a bit, and I mean a small amount of mud on his shirt - last time it was a huge football imprint!) and apparently his teacher really laid into him.
It wasn't deliberate and he didn't even fall. He was playing with a football, all his class were, with another teacher (the PE guy) and of course took a few hits and his shirt got some mud on it. Hardly any - when I heard this at pick up I assumed he had changed because he just looked normal to me.
They are encouraged to play football by the PE teacher and tbh I don't know how, in this climate, they can reasonably be expected to maintain a properly clean uniform during this activity.
I spoke to his teacher. She was at pains to point out that he is 'always the worst' which makes me feel as though he is being targetted somewhat. She is aware of his recent diagnosis and its relation to his personal appearance and spatial stuff such as falling over.
I pointed out that it was a difficult thing to make sure he stays clean without making him stop joining in with the game. She seems overly concerned with appearance, perhaps trying to prep them for big school next year?
But it seems very unfair. (she is the nominated sports rep for the school...!)
No conclusion was reached in this brief conversation, as to how it could be managed.
I then spoke to the PE chap who happened to be nearby, and asked him to have a word with her as I thought it inevitable the children get spattered with mud and he said he took a few hits himself today. Only thing is he's a grown up and wears a water resistant tracksuit.
Ds isn't allowed to change into sports gear for playtime. I have suggested it before.
So what do we do? I want to make more of an issue of it as he was so upset (said she really screamed at him) that he pretended to feel ill and went to sit by the office for an hour as he 'couldn't take any more'. He was in tears when he came out of school.
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Feel that ds is being treated rather unfairly by his teacher. Thoughts?
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Rooners · 28/02/2014 17:19
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