I was called in to speak to the HT after school last week as DS had had an altercation with some other boys on the playground. Apparently a boy had punched DS in the face as he's wanted to join in a game, but a group of boys didn't want him to - the boys happened to all be of the same nationality, and shouted at DS in their mother tongue. DS retaliated by telling this boy (who is Polish) he should respect people in this country, and if he can't he should go back to Poland.
I was and burst into tears . My DC certainly aren't getting this attitude from home. (Both DH and I have parents who were immigrants,and I thought we were quite hot on educating our children about peace and love towards others). Obviously DH and I have discussed with DS why what he said was wrong, but he seemed to be adamant he was right.
Then, on Friday when I collected DD from school she said; "Mummy there are a lot of Polish people in my school."
(There are a few - at least 20%. I'm not sure how I could find out what % of children are EAL, without directly asking the HT)
I said "Yes, that's fine"
DD said "No it's not Mummy. They speak Polish to each other and I don't know what they are saying. I don't like it when I have a Polish person for my talk partner because they don't talk to me properly." I pointed out out all the Polish children in her class speak English perfectly well.
Will DSs comment be recorded as a "racist" attack? (The HT said it was racist)
There seems to be a "them and us" attitude beginning to form in the school. I've no idea why, and I'm not sure what the school could do to address it....but I do think something needs to be done.
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My DC have are spouting xenophobic shite. Should I ask the school to address it?
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AngiBolen · 20/10/2013 15:30
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