I don't know how to help my ds or how many other 7yo boys about to go into year 3 are like this.
Eg of typical behaviour (happened in year 2). The class are given a sheet to complete. Instead of completing the sheet himself, ds looks over the shoulder of a girl he knows to be very clever and copies down her answers. Those who have finished their sheets and got them right can do something else (presumably a more fun thing). So he's given his sheet in with all the correct answers and having spoken to him about this, he does not see the problem. He does not care whether he understood what was on the sheet, he cares that it is done and gone away from him.
Similarly, I will try to explain something to him at home that he should have learnt at school. Instead of listening, he will ask how long this will take and when can he go. His objective is to finish what we are talking about, he does not care whether he understands.
This sort of attitude is ever present. I heard him have a conversation with my 5yo and he told her "when I grow up I will marry a rich woman and then I will have her money and not go to work". . The only saving grace is that he did then say to dd that he would give her some of the rich woman's money.
He has a decent brain but he does not seem to want to use it. I cannot get through to him. His attitude horrifies me and dh, both of us have always done our best. Ds does his best to cut corners.
Can anyone think of how to get through to him?
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Idespair · 19/08/2013 20:48
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