My dd is only just 5, we moved to the area when she was 10months old. After checking everything out and talking to people I found the school I wanted dd to go to when she was 4. So I paid increased rent to secure the school of my choosing. I lost my job in November 2011 and in April 2012 we were made homeless. The school seemed to want to help and got her into play therapy. Her behaviour kept getting worse both at school and at home. So January they put her on the SEN register for behavioural and emotional difficulties. I found out the teacher had said she doesn't have a connection with dd.
Monday I spoke to the play therapist and she asked if I had any news on the housing front. I told her there was a couple of places but they were too far away from the school (and in a less desirable area of the town). She asked me to go in yesterday and speak to her face to face.
When I got there the head and the play therapist were in the room. Then they started. They were saying that the school in that area is really good (was in special measures 2 and a half 3 years ago and has now been made an academy) and has spaces. That, that area is the social housing area and we were unlikely to get anywhere near the current school. Seeing as the school is split infant and junior dd wont get into the junior if we are out of catchment.
The head went on to say "that school would be more equipped to deal with families like yours".
That dd could do with nurture group that they don't have at current school. That the teacher has said the day before that dd would make new friends in the new school and she would be fine (the teacher had previously said that dd was "very concerned about her friends").
They said it would be better to move everything at the same time and that not getting housed faster (because no one wants that area) would be doing dd a disservice (I have done everything with dd in mind). The head said they would be willing to do a transition package for dd so the move would be as easy as possible and that she would be fine once we were settled which could be in a month or 2. They finished up by both saying that what is in the best interest off dd would be to move to this area and get her into the school there.
This really upset me! I do everything I can for dd. I read to her every day between 1-3 books. We practice letters and sounding out writing words to the point where last week she tried to write 'buster' but wrote 'bustur'. Dd went to school knowing single phonic sounds and reading 1+ Oxford tree reading books.
families like yours what families where the parent reinforces work at home, spends time with the child and teaches them. A parent who the senco said was doing everything in their power to do what is best for dd.
They just don't want her there.
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Dinkysmummy · 27/02/2013 10:29
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