ds came out today, having been chewed out by his CT for being 15 mins late into class: ds was told: "where HAVE you been, come and sit down - you've kept this whole reading group waiting. I'm really cross with you and I'm not surprised if the whole class isnt cross with you too. Now I'll have to explain everything again, like I did yesterday"
ds has repeated this 3 times verbatim. once to me at pick up. 10 mins later to DHT (who I went straight to see) and just now to H. Verbatim. I completely believe him. CT was similar with me when I had to ask a Qu about homework.
Ds was 15 mins late as he had been doing touch typing with SEN teacher at instruction of DHT.
DHT explained that 'sometimes teachers get crossed wires' - she did apologise to ds (which I thought was nice), but this is about the 4th time the CT has chewed him out and ds is now switched off.
We have also had: 'making a fuss is silly behaviour, when you make a fuss it upsets mum and me, I should only need to tell you once, if the boys are taking stuff out of your bag then dont bring that toy in (although all the others can), and ds has just been invited to tell CT by DHT why he is scared of CT. Ds has just 'asked' to be moved to the bottom reading group, too, apparantly.
I should say I have been posting in SN section, as ds is - query - asd and defo dsylexic, although schools in this area do not acknowledge until 11/12.
But I wanted to get a mainstream perspective as well.