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DD is in year 2, and I have so far been delighted with her experiences at school. I am not one of those parents who readily finds fault with the teachers, and I generally respect their professional judgement. But I am disturbed by something that her new teacher has done, and want to know what others think.
Essentially, it seems that the teacher has been conducting one to one interviews with each of the children in her class, asking them general questions about them, about their friends and what they enjoy etc. All well and good. However, she has also been asking each child if there are children who they don't like, and who in the class is "naughty". Although these questions have been asked individually, it is within earshot of the other children, and my dd has overheard quite a lot of kids giving their responses.
DD hasn't overheard anything unpleasant about herself, but it worries me that other children may have done, and I wonder what that would do to their self-esteem or self-image. In my view, teachers should be discouraging labels such as "naughty", not perpetuating them. And surely they can see for themselves where any behavioural issues may lie, without having to ask the children?
I really don't understand the benefits of this line of questioning, and it has led me to doubt the teacher's judgement at the start of the academic year, when what I really want is to be able to respect her judgement and work with her. I suppose I should add that dd is perfectly happy so far and enjoying the new school year, so perhaps I am overreacting. But I can't help feeling a bit about this issue, and a bit :( for any kids who may have heard the other children talking about them.
Before anybody asks, I know that dd hasn't got the wrong end of the stick, because several other DCs have mentioned this to their parents. I am reluctant to say anything to the teacher as I don't want to get labelled as a PITA parent, but still, I'm not very happy.
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WoodBetweenTheWorlds · 18/09/2011 12:18
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