Our 8yr old DS told me lst night that "he looks dumb and is dumb". Turned 8 in the summer and has just started year 4.
They went back to school on Thursday. He found the maths he had to do yesterday very hard.
We know that he isn't a mathematician and reminded him of what he is good at.
However, although he is very happy in the school and has plenty friends, I do worry about his self-esteem and confidence when he makes these type of remarks (he did this a bit in year 3). The school is a very nurturing place. I know he is happy there but he is also very competitive. The boy at the top of the class is extremely gifted and my rat wants to be him! This creates anxiety I think.
In all honesty, I have always been aware of the importance of making him feel good about himself but am stuck about what to do now beyond helping him with his maths and generally being positive about his strengths!
All and any tips/advice/ideas welcome!
Thanks.
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"I'm dumb Mum"
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cpbp · 03/09/2011 07:52
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