Hi, hoping someone can help, either if you're a primary teacher or if you;ve been dealing with similar - my son is 8 in year 4. I'll try and sum up briefly, basically he has been friendly with one of the 'rough' kids this year and has often spoken of how this boy wants to fight rather than play. Ds has been told by us from the beginning to walk away and find other kids if this happens and I think sometimes he has and sometimes he hasn't. The last two weeks or so DS has told us the fighting is escalating and he has been genuinely worried, feeling sick on way to school etc, begging to stay off.
Last week he told us that this boy had sat, and bounced on his chest, and DS had cried in school.
We've written to his teacher today basically describing this and saying that DH and I feel the behaviour is heading toward bullying, and can he tell us how he can help. I've also pointed out that DS has said "I will be 'for it' if he finds out I've told".
I'm posting because although pleasant enough I'm not convinced his teacher will do well dealing with this. Can anyone tell me what you did/would do/have done/school has done in similar situation? I really would value opinions/experience so that I'm armed in the event that we have to challenge the teacher if he won't help.
I'm so nervous today!!! Poor DS, what must he feel like!!
thanks in advance
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Join our Primary Education forum to discuss starting school and helping your child get the most out of it.
Primary education
how has your school dealt with fighting/bullying?
7 replies
HonoriaGlossop1 · 13/06/2011 09:20
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.