Ds started reception in September but only started full time the week before christmas. Last Friday when I picked DS up, the teacher asked for a word and asked if anything was going on at home as DS had had 3 sad faces in the week, 2 of which were on the Friday.
Said there wasn't anything going on at home but that we had had a rough week with his behaviour the previous week, had put it down to settling back into school/tiredness but that it had improved. Only comment was that Ds had been waking in the night upset that week, which we have now deduced are night terrors. Also that he'd mentioned various playtime incidents about kids not wanting to play with him . We both agreed to monitor the situation and see how things went/hope it was a blip.
DS slept well all weekend, then came home Monday having had a sad face, cue night terror that night, Tuesday=good day and no night terror, today our CM picked him up and teacher had a word saying he'd had 2 sad faces and asking how he'd been behaving when with her. CM said his behaviour was fine and never showed malice.
The sad faces are being given for 'spats' he's having with various other boys in the class. In his words, he's 'getting them back' because either he was pushed or 'threatened'.
It's hard to work out whats going on from DS's explanations and from chatting to the teacher/messages sent through CM.
Thing thats concerning me, is I'm worried there is a pattern developing between him getting a sad face and having a night terror that night.
I'm scared to let him go to school tomorrow for fear of him getting a bad name/being upset about something he can't articulate/getting another message about his behaviour.
I can't work out if he's maybe being bullied (from the things DS is saying) or if he is just being a 'naughty boy' at the moment.
I'm not sure what we can do other than telling DS it's not ok to hit/shove/throw things, which he does already know. He's fine at home and at childminders and I'm not there at school to see whats happening.
I'm sure i'll be told this is a common thing to happen and that it'll blow over but the urge to keep him home is high(I won't but I want to).
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Feel like keeping DS home tomorrow. :(
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Cazzr · 26/01/2011 22:50
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