Hi all
For as long as I can remember DS (aged 9) has joined clubs/taken part in activities then slowly lost interest and has asked to stop going.
The really important stuff like swimming I've made him keep up but there are things I've spent a lot of time, money and effort driving him to/encouraging him to enjoy/enthusing about that he just doesn't seem to have any drive for.
I'm wondering if it's just his personality type but so far he's began, then stopped: martial arts, guitar lessons, running club and most recently - which he always loved until now - chess club at school.
He's outgoing and has lots of friends and does well academically but I really want him to experience the things my parents didn't have the money or access to allow me to do. I've always felt I missed out on 'doing clubs' and am angry that he's given so much opportunity to better himself and doesn't snatch it up.
Does anyone have any similar frustrations or any ideas how to push him towards stuff without pushing him too far?!
Cross and frustrated!
Thanks all.
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askyourfather · 26/01/2011 09:38
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