just when my faux pas rate seemed to be edging downwards after 3 1/2 years at the school gate I seem to have blown it not once but twice in the last two weeks.
First I scraped someone's car parking (damaging only my own it appears) and an excited neighbour came running after convinced I was trying to make a getaway (some would say 2 metres isn't a very good getaway destination but hey...). The car owner then gave me a lecture in a polite teacher-to-child voice: "It appeared to my neighbour that you were planning to just drive away". I went for a "don't try to explain, just keep saying sorry~" strategy - didn't seem to work. I sent flowers. She hasn't acknowledged them. strike one...
Then I was waxing lyrical in a cafe this morning on the subject of trying to combat bullying only to be cut off by an icy teacher-to-child "please watch your language" after having said "I was so pissed off to hear that xxx had happened again to this child" (rebuker's toddler was there).
I thought I'd be over this stuff at 40..... it's never going to stop unless I can change personality though ..... I don't want to annoy or offend anyone and I also contribute a lot of time to the school and don't want to stop doing this. I'm not even sure I want to be totally different - my friend with impeccable manners has confided that she would love to be more forthright like me and to call things as she sees them...... but I'm obviously inconsiderate or I wouldn't get into hot water like this. It's also very very hard to deal with someone using their teacher-to-child voice at you in public.
I'm not so much interested in discussing the actual episodes - I swore, someone was upset, it happens - but has anyone managed to overcome a tendency to blow it at the school gate?
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being rebuked by other parents in public - have now managed this twice in two weeks - record?
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lingle · 08/12/2010 12:37
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