My DC is loud. I know this. I definitely know this. He has been increasingly getting in trouble for this. Fine, Good. As he should.
However, there is the very small chance that he is getting bored (I know, MN HATES this 'excuse') but it is true. He has had the same level reading books all year (and yes, I know it is early in the year) but they are clearly too easy for him. I go to the library and he gets other books from there that he reads at home. I ever so tentatively approached the teacher and she said he was at the right level. Ok I trust that she knows her job so left it. However he is even saying now that he wants harder books! (He does NOT overhear DH and I talking about this btw)
They are meant to be working on things like:
Letter formation - he can write, although could be neater.
Literacy - He knows all his phonic sounds (and did at the start of the year) and I am now working on the two letter phonemes with him as he needs these for the books that he gets from the library. He knows and 'sees' the magic e. He knows many of the high frequency words.
Days of the week. I said to him today we are doing something on Wednesday, He replied 'ok, the day after tomorrow?'
Counting and ordering to ten - he came home today and counted the fridge magnets. 52!
And this is the curriculum for the year!
Now, socially, he has to learn when to STOP and his , ahem, listening skills could be better.
But Dh and I feel that perhaps his reluctance to listen and participate and stop playing and do some work could be perhaps because he is bored because he knows that when they sit down to do work it is stuff he already knows.
We are quite firm at home and he is forever being told to calm down and listen and stop etc etc and that he is too loud. he is a naturally exuberant boy! But he is great when he is focussed on learning something and will concentrate for ages on whatever it is. He asks all the time for us to look up stuff and he will come up with it later on at some random moment having put it together with all the other bits of information he has collected.
We are by no means saying he is bright or whatever, just that perhaps his energy could be redirected? I know it is hard, as we try to do it all the time (and often fail!) and there are 30 odd other children in the class.
I dont really know what I am asking..what are your thoughts on this? Could he be bored do you think?
I just dont want him to think that school is somewhere where you go to cruise around mucking up. Getting rid of the 'disruptive' label is very hard. And we think he can achieve well, but he is the type of child that you need to direct his focus and I just dont want him to lose his motivation to learn because he thinks he knows it all??
Oh I dont know! Thoughts??
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How would you approach the teacher about this? Or would you not?
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InkyStamp · 22/11/2010 23:25
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