Hello all, I apologise in advance for this long post but really need some advice. So, my 8 year old ds(yr4) comes home on Friday and says" we did something in school today that I'm not allowed to tell you and dad about". He said his teacher had told them not to tell their parents because otherwise all the parents would be coming in to complain and he wouldn't do anything about it if they did. I told him in no uncertain terms that it was wrong of his teacher to say this and he could tell us absolutely anything. He seemed frightened of the teachers reaction. I backed off and within 5 mins he came to tell me. I could tell it had been really bothering him all day. It turns out they had had "circle time". I'd never heard of it before but a friend tells me it's quite common practice in some schools if there are problems in the class. He said they were asked to say one person they liked and one they didn't. 7 of the boys said they didn't like him. Only his best buddy said he liked him. Now, he is quite sensitive and has low self esteem due to his size( he is alot smaller then his classmates and gets stick for it) anyway so this really really hasn't helped. Really don't know what to do. This teacher is so awful. So many things about this are fundamentally wrong. Encouraging young children to keep secrets from their parents being the main one. I want to go straight in to the head teacher with it but dont want to break my sons trust in me. Im very happy that he wanted to tell me, and only want to encourage it in the future. If I go in he would be very cross and upset with me bit I can't let this go surely???
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