My dd started in reception in September - she is a young one, a July baby. We had consultation evening last week and the teacher gave a glowing report about how her behaviour is 'impeccable' and she has settled in beautifully and making friends. She is certainly very happy about school and loves going which is a huge relief given that it took an age for her to settle at preschool.
Ok, here's the but! She seems to have made friends with the naughtiest child in the class and talks about this child all the time and about all the naughty things she does - hitting, spitting, pushing her down the slide, pulling her hair etc. I've said that when she does these things, she must go and find someone else to play with as this is not nice behaviour. This child is already 5 so nearly a whole year older than my dd. The teacher did also comment in the consultation evening that they were quite close. My dh thinks the teacher probably likes them being friends because she may think that my dd is a good influence on her (my dd loves to please and would hate to be told off). However, I'm worried about two things: 1) that this child's behaviour will rub off on my dd, and 2) that she will accept the behaviour which could turn into bullying...I don't think I can use the word bullying at the moment as they're so young - I don't think a child that young would be able to bully??
It has been rumoured on the playground amongst the mums that this child is autistic and I have overheard a conversation between the mother and teacher which would suggest the child has some form of special needs. Whilst I would in no way want to discriminate against this child, I also don't want my child to be hit, spat at etc or for her behaviour to be affected by her.
Sorry to be long winded...just not sure what to do.
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Worried about the child my dd idolises in reception
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13lucky · 19/10/2010 20:20
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