Hello all,
Just wanted to some thoughts if that is ok. My DD 6 is in Yr 2 now, she is a bright child, no genius but top of class. I know we all think this about our kids but school have confirmed this with us.
She is at prep school there are 14 in her class and she is very happy. The thing is they just don't seem interested in stretching her, she just stays on the top level reading books (which she was on in reception) has easy spellings to go through the motions of each week and has to sit through daily phonics which she hates.
I am not a pushy person and really just go along with this as there are so many positives and things I love about her school, it is not an academic hothouse, although gets good results to senior schools etc, there is much emphasis on happiness to achieve, it is very nurturing, good on discipline and the extra curricular is all great.
Half of me thinks just to leave things and let her coast as she is happy but the other half of me thinks they really should be pushing her a bit more - she even tells me whe wishes she was in Yr 9 (!) so she could have tricky spellings. I encourage her to tell the teacher this so they see it coming from her rather than me. I just don't know what is right - to stretch them as far as they can go as long as happy or just to keep going at the level her friends are at. My mum did her reading book with her last night and seemed really shocked at how easy it clearly was for her which got me thinking. I dont think too much about the reading, she reads aloud beautifully (when inclined) and reads lots of books by herself.
Would you just continue to go with the flow or do you think I should be asking them to do more with her?
Thanks.
Whizz
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whizzylala · 30/09/2010 10:27
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