Hi I have a year 1 boy who is at a large primary school.
His reception year was not great. Before he started he occasionally had accidents but when he started school he started to come home more and more regularly with wet clothes at worst at least once a day. The attitude of the school was not helpful - the teacher didnt listen to our suggestions which we found helpful and told us that he couldnt drink at school, wouldnt be allowed in the computer suite (as they had nice chairs) etc talking in a very negative way in front of him and his peers in the playground.
They also seem to have a very negative view of him and very biased.
Generally he didnt seem to make any progress both socially or academically in a year.
At the end of the school year he recieved his report which seemed fair then in the last two weeks of term we recieved an IEP targets outlining his targets in light of his special needs. We had not been spoken to about these and they also contradicted his report? We questioned how this could be true and why did they not involve us so we could also support him.
During the school year he brought home reading books often staying in his bag for 4 - 6 weeks none of which were appropriate for his reading level. (much too hard probably aimed at competent year 1 reader)
Generally we have no faith in the headteacher or SENCO at the school.
Through our older son we have experience of a small village school which is also our catchment school which we where very happy with.
Our gut feeling is that although his year 1 teacher seems a bit better we are already thinking about moving him as we are concerned about his self esteem if he stays at this school. He often comes out with remarks which make us think that he is not treated fairly (although it is difficult to judge as we obviously are not able to observe him during the school day)
On the other hand he has an established peer group so would moving him damage his self esteem more?
Does anyone have any helpful suggestions or any similar experiences?
Thank you for your help!!
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BeetleBug71 · 18/09/2010 22:25
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