OK, I might be overthinking this and being a little bit too MN, but I feel I should be doing something about it.
DS2 is 6, he is one of the youngest children in his year. He has just finished Year 1.
We have had a lot of trouble with getting him to settle down in class over the past 12 months, and he has got into a lot of trouble with his teacher for not doing his work, talking all the time etc. He hasn't wanted to go to school and we have had tantrums most mornings about it. However during the last half term (since turning 6) he has settled down a lot and his teacher says that he is much, much better.
Despite spending a lot of time messing about in class he is quite bright. He is very good at reading, in two languages (despite only having been taught to read in one of them). He is the only child in the year who has to go into Juniors to get his reading books. His imagination is fantastic (which probably causes him to daydream!) and when he is interested in something he fizzes with enthusiasm at learning it.
His writing isn't great, I think this is due to poor fine motor skills as he is brilliant on the PC and can type and spell very well. He plays a lot with lego and Hama beads, and does things like knitting and cross stitch, which I hope will help with his fine motor skills.
At home you can't stop him learning, he has a fantastic attitude to it. He loves going to the library, and borrows armfuls of both fiction and fact books. He loves going to the museum, and is especially interested in the Romans and the Celts. He himself will find games and activities online, eg on the BBC website, to practice his maths and learn about history, geography, science etc.
I just can't understand why this love of learning at home doesn't translate into him working hard in school! Is it just normal 6 year old behaviour? (although DS1 was nothing like this at 6). Is it that the teacher just isn't engaging him? Is it just that he doesn't fit with the school system?
I just don't want another year of him playing up in school and getting nowhere, when I know that he is capable of a lot more.
Has anyone got any advice?
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domesticsluttery · 27/07/2010 10:40
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