I had twins in March which may be part of the behaviour issues but my eldest ds is such hard work - worse than a toddler. He is constantly grounded and has screen time removed. Just as he is getting near to getting everything back he kicks off massively about something unreasonable. Morning are such hard work. It's a screaming match just to get him to get dressed. He won't do anything on his own, he dumps his uniform on the floor every night but "can't find it" every morning. He screams that he hates me and thinks I hate him. He says sorry in one breath then goes back to shouting at me. This morning he shoved me. I've spoken to the school and apparently he is quiet and well behaved there. Has never been on their behaviour warning chart. He can be such a sweet loving boy but I'm struggling to remember that when he is refusing to get into bed at night just shouting "no, you can't make me" and when I try to physically put him in bed he kicks and screams "don't you dare touch me" and says I'm hurting him and he'll ring the police. Im at a loss. He went for dinner at his friend's house last night - was a delight the whole time then a nightmare at home. It feels like whenever he gets something nice he spoils it by being as naughty as possible following a treat.
Am I on my own? Will it end? AIBU to be sat crying in my car after our horrendous morning?
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Mummyto3ds · 12/10/2016 08:55
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