DD12, periods started a year ago, only child, dyspraxic, angel at school.
she Has always been prone to outburst, tantrums etc etc but now she is older they are getting fewer but more violent. She throws things, anything across rooms, at people, can be apples, chairs, computers, anything she has to hand.
DH thinks she needs professional help, I just don't know how to handle it all. My methods is to ignore, tell her to go to her room to calm down, ignore her when she doesnot. Ignore ignore ignore and then when she is calm discuss, impose consequences and talk. DH tries to restrain her to protect our property but this makes it worse and I don't agree with it at all. She says she wants to kill her self, murder me, run away, call social services.
From an outside perspective I reckon she comes across as an attention seeking, spoilt brat with issues. Am I too liberal, does she need medical / mental health intervention or is this just usualish. 90% of the time she is lovely and fine and a typical preteen.
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Jinglebellsarenearlyhere · 25/08/2016 15:34
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