Yesterday got a call from DD's dance teacher as she has noticed scars / scabs on her arm. DD really upset and said she had done 5 days before and it was because another girl in yr8 (my DD is yr 7) had been calling her a "whore". I'm aware of this as my daughter had told me last week and although upset I knew that her friends had stuck up for her and told her just to ignore etc. And hasn't been mentioned since so I hadn't taken any further steps with school. There is a back story here as well my DD had also told me about 2 girls in her year harming themselves and we had talked a lot about it - these other girls do have quite a troubled home life. So I'm struggling to come to terms with the fact that my DD has chosen to do this to herself. She says she won't do it again. And I've said speak to me about anything and how seriously adults take self harming as a cry for help or attempted suicide. I don't know what to do next. Do I trust that she doesn't do it again and what's steps should I put in place ? My gut says that this is something she has done because she has heard about it from others and wouldn't have occurred to her otherwise. But there were about 8 scars (all almost healed) so after doing it the first time when didn't she stop ? That's what's worrying me and making me scared about her repeating it.
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janknitti · 22/05/2016 07:18
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