I am very concerned about the deteriorating relationship between my DDs aged 11 and 8. Up to now they have got along ok with the odd spat,but now there are constant arguments with me playing a rather frazzled referee.
DD1 is coping pretty well with all the changes that are happening to her physically and emotionally, apart from the odd short lived strop and occasional tears. She does have a short fuse when it comes to her little sister who also knows exactly which buttons to press.
DD2 is struggling with the fact that her sister is growing up and getting more freedom. This means I am constantly dealing with the 'it's so unfair' thing, and I cannot seem to reason with her. She then takes her jealousy out on big sister.
The arguments are exhausting and I hate all the strops and shouting.
I would love to hear from anyone out there who has experienced this and perhaps can offer some advice on how to bring some calm to my home.TIA
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shebird · 28/02/2015 21:55
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