Ex bought 10 yr old son a new phone for Xmas, I was happy about it as I dot feel he's responsible enough yet but if it meant he could maintain contact with his dad then I allowed it.
Since then it's been nothin but trouble.
Last week he was brought in for throwing snowballs at cars, he wasn't happy and went straight up to ring his dad, who then proceeded to scream down the phone how he was going to smash my head in. I took the phone and turned it off. Next thing there were two police officers t the door, ex had rung 999! (Yes, REALLY!) the police were furious to say the least an it went down as "malicious ex causing trouble" (we have a court case pending so obv trying to score points)
So now we have been walking on eggshells, I feel like I can't even tell him off or discipline him when needed for fear of this bloody phone.
At weekend DS asked his dad something on the phone, I said his dad shouldn't really be talking to him about things like that as it was adult stuff, to which his dad replied "tell her to fuck off!" DS repeated it
Any advice?
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moomooland01 · 03/02/2015 19:47
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