My 12year old's been suffering from really debilitating tummy pains for the last couple of months. She feels sick a lot of the time and gets very anxious and upset about a number of things, including going to school, staying away from home, food, and going to sleep. She started at secondary school in October and these are all things that weren't previously an issue. She's missed a lot of school days - 1 or two days a week since October and it is affecting our home life and holidays as well.
I've spoken with the GP and he has confirmed that the tummy pains and nausea are most likely anxiety related, and we are hoping that the school nurse may be able to offer some counselling or other support. But although we (parents, form tutor, student support, school nurse) all feel that the pains are anxiety related, my daughter finds that very hard to understand or accept. She feels frustrated that we're all asking her about what worries her but that we're missing the point: no one seems to be wanting to 'fix' her bad tummy.
I have tried to explain to her how sometimes worries make our bodies hurt, but i'm still up against this blocking point: how to help her to make the connection between mental and physical health, and to understand that a good way to tackle the tummy pains is think about how she feels about things. Any suggestions would be really welcome! Thank you xx
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12yr old DD's tummy pains: she finds it hard to see that they're probably anxiety related
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100puddings · 07/01/2015 20:20
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