Back home from parents evening and DS teacher has flagged up his poor attitude in the classroom.
DH & I have seen a change in DS over the last few months. He has been having some end of term assessments and he told me "I'm not going to bother because I know I'll get low marks" - His standard of homework has been awful, he puts less than minimal effort in
Tried to speak to him about teachers concerns and i was met with "I'm not bothered about my attitude to learning" , I asked why "because I'm not" and put his headphones on. I tried to take them off him to talk to him, but we ended up both pulling at them and I snapped them. DS said "oh well, they still work"
His teacher said he puts obstacles in the way to any suggestions she makes, which he also does at home. She said DS has the ability but his attitude is affecting his learning
DS has a twin brother and I don't get any of this with him. Also an older DD who gives me her fair share of teenage behaviour problems, but I've not experienced this before
Am considering withdrawing his football practise as that is the only thing he seems remotely bothered by, not sure whether this will really work though??
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emmief77 · 01/12/2014 18:20
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