My 12 yr old came stay last week, we've been through a messy split ad he lives with dad, massive issues, ss involved, dad kicked him out he's now here. Contact has been sporadic due to his refusal to leave dad. Dad has new girlfriend DS feels pushed out.
No matter how many times I ask him to do something, he refuses. Yesterday he beat his younger brother black and blue, I then ended up sustaining a head injury, split ope and huge lump across my forehead from a flying object.
I don't lose my temper. If anything I'm too soft, if I try to restrain him I'm a "child abusing bitch" (taught by dad)
He's been referred to CAHMS but they won't see him until the differences between my ex and I are sorted.
Mediation has been recommended in a recent court report but the ex completely refuses.
DS is also under a child in need plan.
What can I do to help him? I can I stop the anger pent up inside of him?
He's constantly in trouble at school and telling a the her to eff off is becoming a regular thing. Complete defiance.
I've tried so hard for the ex to see the light but he just won't have it.
I'm literally at my wits end.
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grumpychops1 · 31/08/2014 13:04
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