Dad (my ex husband) has moved down to East Sussex and would like our 12 year old son to now make his own way down and back to visit. This would involve a train journey from West London (Chiswick) to Haywards Heath via Clapham Junction. Son can get a direct train from CLJ to HH.
I feel reluctant though. He is a very able and independent boy, but at the same time, London is weird and 12 is 12, not 18. He gets around by himself to school and to friends' houses, but for example, last week, an older man exposed himself and followed my son in broad daylight (people standing at a bus stop saw and came to my son's aid) and this has left him feeling very nervous.
I just worry about trains. He has never been on an overground or underground by himself before. He does the school run by bike and bus and takes buses locally to friends' houses as I've mentioned, but this will be a big journey. I am not fearful of him making a mistake. I am fearful of letting him go alone. He has a phone. Thoughts and experiences appreciated. Thank you.
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dorasee · 22/08/2014 19:33
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