This is my very first post on anything like this, but I am at my wits end! My 12 yr old boy can be so rude and disrespectful to me and my husband ( mostly me though!) we have tried everything I can think off, banning him from his favourite things, shouting, grounding, sending to bed, ignoring, talking about it etc but nothing seems to work. He can be so lovely and loving but as soon as I ask him to do something ( which is not very often) or even tell him to come down for dinner, I get attitude, he slams his things around and bounces around the house, sulks and says rude things to me. his language can be a little colourful too This happens even if we are out and it is becoming more and more frequent and is to say the least embarrassing and hurtful. He will purposely say things to hurt me. He has even told me he knows we don't love him and he wishes he was dead. He hates his little sister and tells her all the time he wishes she was never born. His sister is 10 and has just started puberty and so she is hormonal and sensitive as it is. Please any advise on how manage this behaviour would be gratefully appreciated.
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