My 12 year old niece (13 in July) is self harming (cutting her arms). This has only just come to light although she has been very down since last Sept. Her brother went off to university then and her mum's relationship with her step-father ended very suddenly at Christmas. She has started counselling although so far has refused to open up to the counsellor but she has told her mum she hates the way she looks and hates her personality. She might be only 12 but she looks 18, is very tall and slim and wears very heavy make up which makes her look so grown up. Anyone have any experience of dealing with this and able to offer some advice on how best to tackle the issue?
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