Ds1 started secondary in September. He was one of two children from his primary to go to this particular school (chosen to suit DS as he's very academic) and he seemed happy to go as he had a friend to go with plus he already knew some of the other boys via this friend.
He appeared to have settled in well, made a group of new friends and reports from school show he's working hard and achieving high. He had a week off with a tummy bug in October and since then has complained a lot about tummy ache. He ended up having 2 days off in November, again due to tummy ache and a couple of times has taken to ringing up when he's almost at school to say he'd been sick/got tummy ache and has been crying on the phone. I had a chat with his tutor but like the chats I've had with DS1, he says there's nothing wrong, school is fine etc..
This morning was the first day back after Christmas and he was crying because he didn't want to go, he doesn't like going on his own (friend lives round the corner but he likes to leave late whereas DS1 is like me and always has to be a little early). I had a chat with him and he seemed to be ok about going to school, I also emailed his teacher. She's had a chat with him and DS1 is now saying that he thinks some pupils are making fun of him (first I've heard of it) but couldn't/wouldn't give her any names. We are both going to chat to him again...
DS1 is very like me so high achiever, works hard, frightened of getting into trouble, can be a bit anxious but he's also very sociable and never seems to have trouble making friends. I used to hate first days back after a break or days where things were different so I can understand today's tears and I can see where being anxious can cause problems but I'm at loss at how to help him.
Just wondering if anyone here has any advice?
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