My DD (9) has been having an ongoing issue with one of her circle of friends. There are 4 of them that hang about together, 3 of them are very good friends and do a lot of afterschool activities together and then theres this 'mean girl' whos become part of the gang. This girl has been making mean comments like 'oh you're so annoying' or 'your silly' etc. which upsets my DD so she goes off and plays with another group. This seems to suit 'mean girl' as she has got DD out of the picture. It seems she has been upsetting one of the other girls also with the aim of having one of them all to herself. She is also a big tell tale and looks for any opportunity to tell teacher about trivial things. If my DD stands up for herself 'mean girl' makes a huge fuss with tears and drama and tells the teacher so DD avoids any conflict with her and she gets away with it.
Is this ongoing niggling just girls being girls or is it low level bulling? DD is terrified of causing a fuss but I cannot let it go on next year if its making her sad. Do I get school involved of let them work it out?
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shebird · 17/07/2013 21:24
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