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DD is 10.8 and I have been monitoring her messages on her iPod, one of the conditions of her getting it.
She has had a couple of "boyfriends" recently (all very innocent; they only see each other at school), and she has managed to ruin her friendships with them by accusing them of being more interested in this other girl (let's call her Lucy) than in her.
DD is evidently very jealous of Lucy. She's never been the most confident of girls, for reasons we've never understood, and it's breaking my heart seeing this destructive behaviour.