Background
Stable family .Only child. Mum with partner over 2 years. New secondary school. Much loved child,Mature and responsible .
Mum and partner agree that Mum is disciplinarian and partner hands (and voice) off . Never had contact with Babyfather. Child rarely left alone except for quick corner shops type trips.No problems at school -has been awarded prizes for settling well -popular but not a leader.
Child has been stealing from a communal pot. Not obvious until lack of coins made it obvious. Child straight faced when confronted with evidence. Didnt admit to anything until "it was only 20p and I put it back" which gradually became "Yes I did take the pound coins". Not many tears
Mum is distraught . Previously child has taken sweets etc and been punished suitably but it seems to be escalating.
Mum is waiting to decide on punishment as she doesnt want to rush in. Child is sorry but seems just to be sorry that she has been caught.
Any tips for dealing with this appropriately ?
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littlesaintnicola · 29/11/2011 20:32
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