My DD10 has a small number of daily chores; some relate to the household and others are about personal responsibility. Nothing too arduous imo; making sure the bathroom has soap/loo roll/towels, emptying bins, cleaning her shoes etc. We agreed the chores in advance, they are reviewed regularly and she asked for, and was given, a written list that she has put on the fridge.
She is very inconsistent about doing them - more often than not she "forgets"; even using the last of the soap, or remembering her uniform is un-ironed 10 minutes before bedtime on Sunday.
What, if anything, can I do? I don't see the point of making them her responsibility if there are no sanctions for not making her contribution, but am at a loss as to what I do next? If she is not old enough for this level of responsibility, my instinct is to remove privileges such as playing out/mobile phone until she can demonstrate that she is able to deal with the responsibility that goes with them.
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Forgetting/neglecting chores - what sanctions are appropriate?
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NotaDisneyMum · 29/06/2011 22:02
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