Dd is 4 at the end of August so one of the young ones in the year and starting reception in September. Today she went on a trip with playgroup to an education centre which has facilities to teach about road safety, safety in the home, stranger danger etc.
I didn't pick her up today but my FIL did and he was taken aside by the playgroup leader to say that during one of the exercises she went off with a stranger who offered her an icecream. Playgroup are now really worried and have asked me to talk to her about today. I have explained about people we know and trust and strangers and she got quite upset and said 'no mummy, I don't want you to talk about that'. I don't know if she got upset because she realised she did something 'wrong' at playgroup, or if she is scared by it.
I feel a bit foolish for not having properly addressed this with her - we have spent a lot of time talking about road safety and she is superb when we're out and holds my hand and walks really sensibly. I have also talked a bit about who can help her if she wets herself or anything and who can help her in the toilet etc. We've also explained all about how babies are made in the correct terms and she is fine with it all. I think part of the reason I haven't really gone in to stranger danger too much is because I'm worried about how to talk about it without scaring her. I know she needs to know but she is ever so young and little things really upset her (like all children).
I was wondering if anyone had any tips? also are there any books available that address the issue?
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Hangingbellyofbabylon · 24/06/2008 15:54
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