Hi everyone - this is my first post so be kind
I'm coming to the end of my tether now DS started pre-school in September (he didn't attend nursery before this, he stayed at home with me), he hit a few bumps along the way in his first couple of weeks (I.e was too excited playing with all the other children that he got a bit boisterous and would accidentally knock a child over/fall on them). Then we had a nice steady October where he was acting as he should and making friends.
These past few weeks, I am constantly being given incident cards (notes telling me that he's done something wrong like hit or push a child). He goes to pre-school 3 mornings per week and I get given an incident card every single time I pick him up and I have ran out of ideas on what to do about it!
He does not push or hit anybody when he's at home/at a relatives house or while I'm with him in public, therefore I'm finding it even more difficult as I can't witness it for myself to know why he is doing what he's doing. The staff at the pre-school have told me that sometimes there is a reason behind his behaviour (a child playing with something that he wants and they won't share/he won't wait for them to finish) and sometimes there is no reason at all.
I feel like a complete failure every time I pick him up from nursery as everyone who meets him comments on how well mannered he is and how polite and then I pick him up from nursery and get told about this whole other side to him
When he plays up at home, he goes and sits on the naughty step until he is ready to apologise, and when he does apologise he always gives a kiss and a hug. If he is very naughty, he will go for a longer time out in his room and depending on what he has done, some of his favourite toys are taken off him - this is a rarity as he never usually does something THAT terrible, just the odd temper tantrum.
Can anyone please give me some advice so that I don't come home and secretly shed some tears?
Ps, I'm sorry this post is so long!
Thanks xx
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3 year old pushing and hitting at pre-school
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Wifey123 · 02/12/2016 13:53
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