I have 2 DC with exH, aged 5 & 7. I've just escaped the most full-on part of child rearing and I've found out I'm pregnant.
Been with DP about 10 months. We're broke. I live in a tiny 2-bed house and can't afford to move. DP lost his job recently. We don't live together but DP's planning to move in soon. I love him, he loves me. He's great with my kids.
He doesn't want a baby and neither do I, but I feel really sad when I think about getting rid of it. He feels sad too.
I guess for him, it's not his last chance. He's 36 and could still find a fertile girl to reproduce with in 10 years time. But I'm 42. It probably is my last chance. But that's not a reason to keep a baby I don't want.
But what if we have an abortion and regret it but then can't have another?
I don't know what to do. I just feel desperately sad.
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42andpregnant · 01/07/2015 17:23
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