Two weeks ago I told my manager that I was pregnant for the second time. I returned to work last September full-time. I really do enjoy work and at the time part-time wasn't a real option.
I didn't really expect my manager to be excited for me as am I aware that my maternity leave will create difficulties to an already over-stretched department. Neither has she children, so I couldn't expect her to understand.
However, I have been surprised at the negativity I have received from the rest of the team. Does anyone else here think it is rude for a colleague to say "Was it planned?" (also voiced by my manager for that matter) and then say "but how are you going to cope financially?". Many have responded with "Again?"
I really do enjoy my work and up until now I have felt supported but I can't help feeling that my work place have taken the line that I am taking a liberty becoming pregnant a second time.
Dh thinks that it is likely I appear to want it all and it is resented by the team.
I don't want this to become a work/life balance debate but I would like to know if anyone out there is in a similar position and what did they do.
The job I have now does have some impact on us as a family because I work so far away form home, but to be honest I don't think I want to carry on making the effort with this kind of attitude.
I'm upset at the moment so maybe I am blowing this out of proportion.
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MrsDoolittle · 11/08/2005 13:19
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