My mum is generally very cool and a very easy houseguest. This is good, because she's coming out from Africa, and when she does come she'll come for a couple of months. DH and I both want to her to come, to meet/help with our first baby.
But I would like some time for DH and I to "learn" the baby/ alone with the baby before she arrives. DH has 2 weeks paternity leave. I am thinking a month after the birth?
Do you we're missing a trick and should take advantage of her offer to be here from the start and get some help in the mad early days? Did you have someone come and stay and help, and if so when? Anything you would have done differently?
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How long after the birth should my mum come?
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LuckyC · 25/01/2010 11:22
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