hi guys!
i am after a bit of advic.
i am currently 31 weeks pregnant and my mum keeps saying things which are really getting to me. she suffers with ms and has done for yrs, she is wheelchair bound and has carers 3 x a day, as my dad struggled to manage her, hes a saint!!!!!!, however she told me the other day i was getting fat all over, very blunt, however i am quite neat! she also came out with a corker yesterday, she said i hope your not having any pain relief or thinking of a ceaserean, i was so taken aback i struggled to reply. after sitting for a minute i said i would love to manage with gas and air however if i need anything else including a ceaserean i will have it! she then said if offered a cesearean i should refuse unless absoulutley necessary! i ignored this coment as could feel i was getting mad! the problem is my mum is quick to say things but will not discuss things if she has upset me etc, she quickly changes the subject or goes quite, very frustrating. i could go on loads, but will never stop!!!!!!!!!!!! the thing is i dont want to go and see her or take her out shopping as i feel every time i see her, i come away feeling so down, and my hubby gets so mad, i havent told him about this last event as i am worried he will go nuts!!!!!!!!!!!
I wondered if she was worrying about being involved with her grandchild, in relation to not being able to help me etc! or seeing him as much as she would like! we live over 1hr away, so its always me who runs back and forwards! itried to discuss this but cold shoulder treatment again. 'blubbering whilst typing this feel bad'
what would you do?
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mums coments are upsetting do i say anything!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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nomorebooze · 18/11/2009 10:19
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