Hello
I am a 41 year old woman expecting her third little boy. My last boy that I had at 37 was found to have a 1/42 Downs Syndrome risk and my husband and I found it an incredibly difficult time. Especially as all the tests had been done quite late and the baby was already moving and kicking about inside me. We have always discussed Down's as a possibility as I am so old and both know we would terminate if the pregnancy went this way but the decision became much harder when psychologically the baby was already feeling like a different entity to myself. Luckily after amnio we found out that Number 2 was fine.
The problem is that with the first amniocentesis I found the whole experience unbearably painful. I felt like the gyny was sticking a knife very slowly into my tummy and felt the womb being pierced. I was screaming and had to be held down and the doctor kept yelling that if I didn't calm down I would damage the baby. I found the whole experience extremely upsetting and swore I would never ever go through that again. Now I find that the screening for Number 3 is 1/52 and so will have to have another amnio. I am terrified by the thought of this and not sure I can put myself through it - it feels like I am putting myself up for medieval torture again. Does anyone else here have a bad experience of amnio and any tips for how I can avoid the pain option?
Thanks in advance
Boymaker!!!
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Boymaker · 30/10/2009 14:46
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