Just wondering what other peoples experiences were with having scans when you didnt want to find out the sex. how discreet is the sonographer expected to be? basically she was new and being supervised. we told her we didnt want to know sex so she said 'well you better look away then'. so obvioulsy we tried to look away but something very obvious kept popping up and I knew my partner had seen it and was thinking the same! she also referred to baby as 'he' and 'his' all the time. just wondered if anyone elses sonographer was a bit more discreet or is this an unrealistic expectation? i mean they have to check all anatomy dont they? but i just thought perhaps she would have at least tried not to give it away.If im honest we were hoping for a girl but now we're 90% sure its a boy, though we are more dissapointed about having the surprise ruined.I respect that the majority of people probably nowadays want to know at 20 weeks but we really didnt. what are other peoples experiences advice on this?
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milkmummy1 · 23/05/2009 13:29
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