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Has anyone else been like this??????

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Tiaxx31 · 16/05/2009 11:59

I am 11 weeks and really getting annoyed by my partners movements, everything is just annoying me and can't put up with him anymore so i ahve told him we should live seperate so he is looking for a house and going to move out. We have only been together since begining of this year so it was all rushed him moving in etc when he shouldn't of moved in, he should of got place on his own.He expects me to do everything even when i am really ill, he sits down in the lounge and waits for his hot drink and his tea instead of offering to finish cooking it so i can sit down because i feel so ill. Doesn't help me what so ever round the house. Just driving me mad i feel so much like a slave..

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Bump02 · 16/05/2009 22:11

Oh your poor thing. I really do feel for you. I have been in your situation,(with my ex) and know it is not fair or nice at all

I just want you firstly to try and relax, you need to slow down a bit Get early nights.

As for your relationship...well wow what a shock for you guys Just getting together then you are pregnant...that is going to take some time for both of you to get used to. You guys really need to TALK, nicely, and if it helps get some couple counselling...it helps..believe me!! He needs to hear you say that you are finding things (housework etc) are getting harder now you're pregnant and ask him for his help (men like being asked, it makes them feel worthy)

I have been with my (new) partner for 7 years and i'm ready to rip his head off at least 20 times a day..and he doesn't have to do anything to piss me off!! Your hormones are all over the place and you WILL feel human again!!

Good luck hun Thinking of you And RELAX!!!

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Bump02 · 16/05/2009 22:13

Forgot to say Congratulations xx

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gizzy1973 · 16/05/2009 22:46

one thing about men is they arent very good about thinking what needs doing they have to be told or asked to do it first at least this is what i have found with my dh

maybe apend some time apart and slowly get things back on track

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