One of my best friends has been desperate for a baby for quite a while. In the last few years friends have fallen pregnant, and in the last year, a friend has had a baby, and now another is pregnant. My BF feels she is one of the last to conceive, and it upsets her. She does not go on about she, she is very pleased for everyone who is pg or who has had babies, she is there with presents, she draws a picture with their birth sign, name, date and time of birth.
She has been absolutely fab with our DD, she is a proper aunty, thrown herself into it as she has no children of her own.
Her and her DH have recently started to research more why they are struggling. She eats all the right food, takes vitamins, has ovulation sticks, knows her body inside out. DH has had tests and all is ok there, she is waiting back for tests herself as it has been suggested by GP she might not ovulate every month. Her and DH have been 'at it' almost constantly since our last friend got pg as they really want babies with everyone else, and she is worried as she grows older it is just not going to happen.
I have found out I am pg with no.2 and don't know how to tell her. She will be pleased, I am sure of that, but bitter sweet.
I am seeing her and her DH today, we are going for a walk. Should I tell her today (I am 4.5weeks), or wait? We have not told anyone else yet, and I want to tell her before others, so she does not hear it from other people.
When should I tell her, how should I tell them? Any advice on how to minimise the impact of this, as clearly DH and I are over the moon but don't want to rub their faces in it so to speak.
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pavlovthecat · 14/03/2009 09:48
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