I went for my 20 week scan today and the sonographer asked if I wanted to know the sex. I said I didnt because I would prefer it to be a surprise. The sonographer when measuring the parts said "he" and then quickly back tracked and followed "I mean he or she" which makes me think it must be a boy. Had she not followed with this I would of thought nothing of her using "he" because people usually default to "he".I know this sounds really crap and I am glad the baby is healthy I have one DS who has ASD he is gorgeous and has such a great character. I couldn't help feeing a bit disappointed to possibly now know the sex and also to know Im not having a girl. Im not disappointed to be having a boy (if I am having a boy) but to not ever have the possibility of having a girl- I have been through two horrible pregnancies and couldn't do it again. Im just being silly arent I and I should get a grip.
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