Sorry if this seems like a silly question but people have been telling me different things and now I'm beginning to feel scared.
Dh's best friend died a week ago and it's her funeral tomorrow. It will be a truly horrific day, she was absolutely wonderful, a young woman with a one year girl and a big loving family who we know well and a huge group of friends; all of whom will of course be there. I want to go as I want to support my dh who is so sad and keeps crying which I can't bear. However when I tell people I will be going they say that that's really bad for the baby (I am due on Friday). I remember the baby's heart rate being v fast the other day when I had been stressing to my mw app. in the heat and my bp was high, so I know that what I'm feeling can affect the baby. Now I'm terrified that the atmosphere will be so awful that the baby will freak. Obv this is not my grief, however sad I am about her death, but still it will be a very horrible day.
Does anyone know the medical truth behind this? Thank you.
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Stress/sadness in late pregnancy
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Mip · 18/06/2008 09:11
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