Wasn't really sure where to post this, nor why, but I just need to tell someone about all this! It's weighing me down!!
Ds will be 3 in a week and we've been holding off on having a 2nd mainly for financial reasons. Tbh the finances aren't any better except that we're finally off benefits as I've just gone back to work. But I am desperate now to have another baby. Seeveral close friends have recently had seconds and I am so broody it sometimes makes me to cry to have to give them their babies back.
But the problem is that I don't sense that dh is too keen. Plus I've only been back at work for 3 months. Plus we live in a tiny flat and can't afford anything else. Plus we aren't earngin a lot so basically have enough to live as we are but not sure about the strain of an extra person on that financial situation. Plus I hated being pregnant first time round. And finally I'm so worried that my already difficult three year old would just tip me over the edge with a newborn.
Sorry for blurbing all that. Jus want some positive input, I guess.
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evansmummy · 06/12/2007 21:02
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