....and I have done or hardly bought ANYTHING for my baby.....because she has beaten me to it EVERY time.
I tried to tell her once that she didn't need to get anything because me and DH would, but she shouted at me for being ungrateful and selfish because no-one helped her when she had me years ago when she was a single mum at 16.
I'm 26. I have a husband. I have a mortgage. Up until the beginning of this month I worked full-time and was planning to use the hard earned money I saved to get my little girl what I wanted or could. But my mum has constantly made me feel like I am still a child and stupid. I once almost had a panic attack in Mothercare because just looking at things that I couldn't buy made me feel so low and inadequate.
I feel so bad now that I just want to give the baby to her when she's born and have done with it - and she can live with my mum and my other younger siblings. I can't take any of this anymore. I don't feel like i'm the baby's mother at all now - just a bystander really.
My DH doesn't know what to do. I have been crying non-stop since my mum left last night after dropping round yet more stuff (that I didn't ask her for) that I was leaving to the last minute to get next week. I was looking forward to picking out SOME THINGS for my daughter.
I haven't even been allowed to choose a selection of baby toiletries or nappies because those are part of the things she brought with her yesterday - all piled high in a baby bath that I told her not to get because we only live in a 1 bedroom flat and storage is tight.
Like I said - its not my baby anymore. My mum even went so far as to say how long 'we' (meaning the family) had been waiting for this baby. No - DH AND I WAITED for a long time for this baby after I was diagnosed with PCOS in 2005 and had to go through the fertility treatment.
I give up.
Sorry to bring you all down on a Sunday guys. Hope that you are all well and everything is going ok where you are.
Riv xx
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Rivanshine · 23/09/2007 14:33
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