Ladies
Please help me. Am I being selfish,
I am due at the beginning of August, but as my Husband is in the Army and training for Afghanistan he is going to be away between Baby's arrival and Xmas. This is just life and something I have to get on with no issue there. However this weekend my in-laws (parents and Siblings)announced they wanted to come over for Xmas and stay with us (they live all abroad). So I am left for 4 months on my own with a new born (nothing I can do about that) and now I have 9 people invited themselves for Xmas.
I really feel no one has taken into consideration that I will be exhausted from raising a newborn on my own, and now I feel cornered as they are all asking when they can book flights. Added to which it means I don't get time with Hubbie and baby before he goes away to Afghanistan for 6 months.
My Parents on the other hand are being fab and suggesting we go to them for Xmas so I don't have to do anything, then go home and nest with Hubbie for the remainder of the time off before he leaves.
The trouble is in laws are all planning and discussing the whole event (there is no other location in the UK they can all stay in) and if I turn around now I am the horrible daughter in law that cancelles Christmas.
My Hubbie is away at the moment and so I can't talk to him about it but I am losing sleep over this as I really don't think I could cope with them all. Funny I can cope with him in a War zone and being on my own but the prospect of them all at mine for Xmas fills me with fear, as I will be left to do everything.
What should I do?
Amk
27+2
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Am I being selfish - In law Issue
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amk78 · 08/05/2007 11:41
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