Just wondered what others' experiences are of having family to visit after the birth?
My parents live about 6 hours away. They are very aware that they don't want to overcrowd us when the baby first arrives; but also that they want to be able to offer support. As they live so far away, they'll really need to come and stay when they come to see the baby, and it makes sense to come for a good few days to make the long journey worth it. They have asked us to tell them when we want them so that they don't overcrowd us. They are very aware that we need time to settle into doing things our way, and are being very sensitive about it.
The thing is, I really have NO idea how soon we'll want them there - what are others' experiences? They wouldn't need hosting per se, e.g. would be willing to do the cooking and not need 'entertaining'. I'm just not sure what we are likely to want when the time comes!
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How soon should we invite parents to stay?
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ThePartyArtist · 24/11/2016 15:09
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